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Is the contract recorded?
This is the big one. An unrecorded contract for deed leaves you invisible at the courthouse, so a later buyer, a lender or a creditor of the seller can take priority over you. Missouri requires recording within 30 days of signing. If a seller will not record, walk away.
Is there a mortgage on the house, and who is paying it?
If the seller still owes a bank and stops paying, the bank can foreclose out from under you even though you are current. Ask for written disclosure of every mortgage, lien and encumbrance, and how they get cleared before your last payment. Both Missouri and Kansas require that disclosure in writing.
What happens if you fall behind?
Ask, and get the answer in writing. On a contract for deed Missouri gives you at least 60 days to cure once you have paid 30% of the price or made 48 payments, and Kansas gives 30 days under half paid and 90 days at half or more. A contract that says you lose everything on a single late payment is not enforceable as written.
Do you get a statement every year?
Missouri requires the seller to send one each January showing the remaining balance and what went to principal, interest and rate. If nobody can tell you your balance, you cannot tell whether you are actually getting anywhere.
Is it a purchase or a rental? Judge it by what it does, not what it is called
This is the one that decides everything, and the label on the document is not the test. A real purchase has a price, an amortization schedule and a balance that goes down; you can sell, rent out or refinance the house; and the title comes to you when the debt is paid. A rent-to-own or a lease option has none of that — you are a tenant with a right to buy later, your payments build nothing, and if you cannot qualify at the end the option simply expires. Ask to see the amortization schedule. If there is not one, you are renting.
Anyone who will not name the title company
A real closing has a neutral third party. If someone wants to do this at a kitchen table with a form they printed, leave.